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It has been said that one of people’s biggest fears is public speaking. Add to
that the stress of grief, and it becomes clear that giving a eulogy can be very
difficult for some people. Nelson Bros. Funeral Services offers the following
tips for keeping your composure while accomplishing an emotional task.
So you have been asked to give a eulogy…
The purpose of a eulogy is to pay tribute to the life and achievements
of the deceased. If possible you should consult close family members and
reach agreement as to what might be included.
If you feel
uncomfortable speaking in public or at an emotional occasion such as a
funeral, you may always prepare the eulogy but not present it during the
service; a civil celebrant or minister or someone else could read it out
for you and your family.
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Remember the following points
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The
funeral is for those grieving
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Always use the deceased’s name
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Speak
about the unique qualities of that person; you may include family
history, important career or personal highlights
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Keep
your eulogy brief enough to say what you need to say and to ease the
pain of those present; there is no need to talk for any great length
of time
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You
can use different forms of technology (e.g. computer, music, video)
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It
is alright to use humour (but keep it appropriate!) - people enjoy
hearing about the anecdotes that are part of our lives
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Be
sincere
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Speak
as naturally as possible, just as if talking to one person
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Consult
with family and the celebrant or minister to determine their desires
and any possible restrictions in the service itself
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If
you become upset when giving a eulogy, take a moment to compose
yourself and take a few deep breaths before continuing; others will
understand
Finally,
a eulogy should be a celebration of a person’s life. |
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Click here to download our Eulogies
information sheet.
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